Ahhh the age old question…how will I know he is the one? I definitely used to ask this one a lot.
And the response from my loved up friends, which actually wasn’t really helpful at all, was more often than not…WHEN YOU KNOW YOU KNOW! Arrggghhh I wanted to pull my hair out! Haha
“Ok, Ok, I hear what you are saying, but give me something I can grab onto, something chunky ya know…like HOW will I know?”
To which they would look at me a bit perplexed as they desperately tried to put words to the FEELING, and simply end up saying…You Just Know! Haha
Ahhh, ok, yea I get it, that’s much clearer…NOT! Haha Big help guys, THANKS. 😉
It wasn’t until I experienced it for myself that it really landed for me, and I’m sorry to say ladies, but I’m probably not going to be much more help than your loved up GF’s…though I will try my best to give you some insight.
What I can tell you is this…
It cannot be explained logically, so give yourself the gift of freedom and stop trying to analyse and understand it in your mind.
It’s a FEELING.
A deep knowing that comes from within, from your HEART, not your head.
It’s a knowing that begins with knowing yourself. To then be able to hear your intuition and trust that guidance.
It’s a soul recognition. It’s a deep connection. It’s a feeling of safety. It’s a feeling of having known them before.
And it’s freaking BEAUTIFUL!
“Ok Nic, that’s all well and good, but how about some actionable stuff that I can sink my teeth into to develop that trust and knowing in myself” you say…well I’m glad you asked!
This is the stuff I LOVE right!
So first off, get really freaking honest with yourself sister…where have you been lying to yourself all these years?
Maybe you keep telling yourself you’re going to start eating better and you never do?
Maybe you keep promising to start yoga, or spend more time with your GF’s, or finally sign up for that walk for charity…and you NEVER do!
Whatever it is, it’s time to bring in some integrity with YOU. The fastest way to start trusting yourself is by keeping YOUR WORD to yourself.
Secondly, you want to learn how to differentiate between thoughts and soul nudges.
MEDITATE!! Yes, I’m speaking loudly with excitement!! Haha
Hands down, the best and all round most amazing way to develop a truly deep and loving relationship with yourself and your intuition. If you’re not already doing it…start NOW!
Begin with a little as 5 mins a day and gradually work your way up.
If you’re unsure of how to start, you can pop over and check out this video training I did on how to meditate
Ok ladies, I hope this has helped you grasp a better concept of the whole HOW WILL I KNOW HE IS THE ONE question
I also wanted to remind you that my rise in love 6 week program is now available as a digital, ‘at your own pace’ online program, that you can access at any time! Great hey. If you’ve been wanting to dive in for a while and have been waiting for the right time…this is your sign. You can access all the details and sign on here.