I’m going to keep this short and punchy for you as I want you to absorb this info ASAP, especially if you are currently dating.
Quick question…how often have you noticed red flags in guys, when you’re body has told you something isn’t quite right, yet you’ve chosen to ignore them anyway, allowing your mind to take control, because after all…he could be the ONE right?
Ok chick…it’s time to take note. It’s time to take these signals seriously, and not only that, to KNOW the ones to most definitely need to run from.
Often, it’s not that we keep attracting the wrong guys…geez, I attracted some really beautiful men, it’s more that we CHOOSE the wrong guys by ignoring the warning signs in the beginning, in large part because of the core beliefs we are carrying…that’s a whole other path to travel down, and one that is covered thoroughly in the RISE IN LOVE program. Super important.
So today, I am going to give you a head up on the top 5 red flags to look out for, and to walk away from ASAP!
Let’s do this.
1. You’re the one ALWAYS initiating contact
Trust me on this one ladies…if he’s into you, he will be messaging you as often as he can!! If you’re the one always having to make contact with him…it’s a RED FLAG. Delete, block, move on!
2. You go for days without hearing from him, then he messages you at stupid o’clock in the morning asking to come over.
Straight up…he sees you as a booty call, and that’s all very well if that is what you are after, however if you’re looking for something more long term…this is not the guy for you. You deserve someone who wants to see you on a Tuesday night, when he’s sober and you’re sitting at home watching movies. BYE BYE!
3. He sends you nudes in your first few messages.
I feel as though I don’t really need to explain this one, but just in case you’re still thinking that MAYBE it’s ok…it’s NOT…again, unless that’s all you’re looking for. If he’s sending them to you, he’s sending them to other babes as well.
4. He doesn’t do what he says he’s going to do.
Girl, a man without INTEGRITY is NOT a man you want to be hanging with. Actions always speak louder than words, so if he keeps making promises that he just isn’t keeping…it’s time to give him the flick.
5. He doesn’t have a great relationship with his mum!
Now this one, does have a little loophole. If his mum hasn’t been in the picture, or there’s something seriously wrong with her…that’s a bit different, but if his family dynamic is a mess and he doesn’t get on that well with mumma bear…I’d be out of there in a flash!
If he hasn’t had a relationship with his mum for whatever reason, however does have a great relationship with another female figure in his life, say and aunty or grandmother, then that’s ok, but if he’s a mum hater…RUN, run as FAST as you can!! If he doesn’t respect the woman who birthed him into the world…he sure as hell isn’t going to respect YOU my love.